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Reading this brought back something inside of my soul that I had carefully hidden in a deep dark place... I was a teenager dipping my toes into the dating world and there was something about the second date that always ruined everything... I never had a third date with anyone until I was well in my 20s. Why is this out!? Bury it back!!

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Feb 4Liked by Lucy Handley

Love this and I identify! I’m more than cool for the first two, It’s on three they become my limerent subject, rather than avidly tolerable human who now know just a little bit better lols

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Feb 4Liked by Lucy Handley

Lucy, that sounds just about right. If there is no attachment after three dates it's time to move on. Time is precious!

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Feb 4Liked by Lucy Handley

This is so relevant to me right now.. reckon it might have been date 4 or 5.. I also get totally drawn into solving puzzles which is why I’m good at my job but not helpful in any way when it comes to dating 🤦🏻‍♀️

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