relationships

This unstructured life

I am childfree and freelance and sometimes do 'nothing' all day

Oct 9 •

Why I write about my life, in public

Or what it means to be 'seen'

Aug 10 •

At nearly 48, this is how I feel about not having children

I've had a revelation

May 5 •

I need you to make an effort to "get" me

My number one need from a partner

Apr 6 •

Do you know how to say 'No'?

It's better to disappoint someone else than to disappoint yourself

Mar 16 •

What women talk about in private

Is it the same for you?

Feb 16 •

Do you know who you are yet?

This childfree/childless cat lady is still working it out

Oct 27, 2024 •

When was the last time you did something for the first time?

I just went on live TV to talk about being 'childfree'

Oct 20, 2024 •

Why "I can't believe you're single" is the worst thing to say on a date

Sep 16, 2024 •

Midlife crisis? I’m having a midlife bounce

Thank you for all the lovely messages you sent after the post I wrote about my dad, Roger, who died 15 years ago.

Aug 25, 2024 •

It's been 15 years

Aug 18, 2024 •

Does it feel like 'everyone else' is having children?

Here's what I know about that

Jul 7, 2024 •

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